23 November 2008, 6:48 am
okay so basically i would like to know in your opinion do you think i should be with this guy or not... i know its long but i really need other opinions...is this love? okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for 6months and 5days, and at first it started out good, he seemed like the perfect guy. but we didnt really get to know each other too well we met at a party and he was drunk, and i gave him my number and from that night we were talking on the phone and got together like that a few day after and then started hanging out and being with each other just about everyday. well anyway all we do is argue a whole lot, but we get along when its ime to have *** and sometimes at other times, and he is very insecure every time i'm not around him he always think that i am talking to other people. and usually when i not around him at nights and i'm trying tpo call him just to talk, but if i'm not being ignored by him im on the phone with him crying myself to sleep because of some that he's either doing,saying,or just how he's acting, it never fails, and he doesn't just ignore me at nights its sometimes throughout the day as well. he tells me that he loves me and he used to tell methat he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but i dont see how anyone could love someone and do the things that he does. he likes to yell and cuss at me, but dont get me wrong i yell and cuss back sometimes but thats because i get tired of him doing it to me and me not doing or saying anything about it. another thing is he told me that he is very jealous, which he is. and he doesn't want me talking to and guys what so ever, like i can't even have any guy friend at all. but you me i dont mind if he has female friends it doesn't really bother me, but i told him the same thing that he told me, at it didnt really make a huge difference. i can say that he did stop talking to a few or a couple of the females that he used to talk to before he met, but not all like he was so determined that i do (well i guess) just the other day i had went out with my bestfriend (female) becuse we dont really get the chance to hang out anymore because she is still in hs and i graduated and now in college and i be with him all the time. so i told him and he got mad a hung up in my face (this happenes a lot) and then calld back sayin oops i meant to say "I hope you enjoy yourself" and hung up again and i was trying to call him back, i called like 6 or 7 times and he didnt answer, then after i left her i went to my other friends house and i was talking to him on aim, and he got mad because i was over there and didnt go home and i was trying to call him again while i was over there throughouy the night he didnt answer at all. then then he calls me at 3am i guess thinkg that i was gonna answer,and then aimed me in the 9 o'clock hour asking me what time i got home last night and i said it didnt matter because he wasn't answering his phone when i was calling him and he must have been that occupied and then he wrote to me "HE HOPES THE DICK WAS GOOD AND BETTER THAN HIS AND HE HOPES THAT HE EAT ME OUT TOO" i said WOW...then we were kinda going back a forth and he was calling me a liar and put his away message up talking about how he was with a female that night and he's glad that she understands him and i dont and saying that im a liar and i can't be real with him, and saying that i dont love him :(...(personally i think that he likes to makes me cry at times) he usually tells me that i dont show him that i love him, but i dont see how he could honestly say that. i mean i live in perris ca. and he lives in los aneles ca. and thats about an hour drive. i go to school 3 days a week which is in san bernadino so when i'm not in perris i am out there with him, and i only go to perris whne i have to go to school (i hope you understand this) i try to do what ever i can to spend a lot of time with him, basically all my time is devoted to him and school. i dont spend time with my family like i used to because i try my hardest to do whatever i can to keep him happy...beause like i said whenever i'm not around him he thinks i doing stuff with other people. i've even changed my school schedule so that it wont interfere with our time together. he usually dont have anymoney im always the one with the money and i'm always buying us something to eat and he doesn't have a car either so when i'm over there and he needs, well wants a ride some where i take him right along with his mom and sisters and i hardly even get a thank you or gas money. and he doesn't understand i guess exactly how far i'm driving to see him and i dont think he cares. ***there is more stuff, but i think this is too long already... PLZ GIVE ME YOUR HONESTLY OPINION ON MY SITUATION THANKX!!! P.S family and friends have told me that i dont have to go through this what he puts me through, and i know i dont but i'm still here. its hard for me to break up with him as much as he also has a very bad attitude, and gets mad and itrritated very easily i know some words are mispelled, but i was trying to type fast and the spell check had went off... Read More »
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